Thursday, August 9, 2012

I've Lost That Loving Feeling



I read a wide range of different genres, but lately I’ve consumed a steady diet of romance novels. Maybe I’ve OD’d or maybe I’m just that strange duck that isn’t bright enough to join the flock. The heroes in the books I’ve recently read are just too darned nice. How did I discover this? Because I wanted to write a novella withI kid you nota hero who stalks the heroine. (Just in case someoneeveryone thinks I’m an idiot, I know the reality of being stalked is a horrifying experience and would never romanticize it.) To make things worse, I realized three quarters of the way through the story, I wanted the heroine to be guilty, which would have made her not so heroic. But more interesting.

Obviously, I’m experiencing a backlash from all those nice people I’ve been reading about. I know when readers chose a romance they’re not buying the book to indulge in a dose of reality. They want the perfect hero. Oh, he can have a flaw or two; we all know the drill. But when is the last time you read a romance where the hero was seriously flawedAnne Stuart aside? (I’m sitting here with my hands over my ears imagining all of you shouting out titles!)

Oh, for the age of the anti-hero. I loved Heathcliff when I was a teenager. Yes, I know, we all grow up and leave the bad boys behind. I know Heathcliff was a nasty bit of goods, but no one doubted how deeply he loved Catherine. And didn’t you always hope he’d redeem himself? Wasn’t he a fascinating character? Maybe it’s because I grew up reading books like Wuthering Heights, Jane Eyre and du Maurier’s, Rebecca, where anything was possible, both good and bad, that sometimes I want…more. And let’s not go the easy route and bring out the whip. I don’t mean that kind of more!   

Books reflect what’s happening in our culture. People don’t really change, but what we expect from them does. Which, I suppose, in turn, gradually brings about change. So if most of us want the ultimate hero a tough guy who can cry, make perfect love and a good income, what does that say about us? Are we afraid to take chances with our heroes? To let them be less than perfect? And what about our heroines? Do we expect as much from them as we do from the hero? Or to put it another way, do our heroines have more leeway to be less than perfect?
As for the hero in my novella, he decided to behave himself after I gave him a stern talking to. But the heroine? It remains to be seen exactly what kind of trouble she’s in. Guess you’ll just have to read Out of Control.

Help me out with my summer reading list, please. Tell me who your favorite anti-hero is and why.      
  

22 comments:

Ellen Hartman said...

Hi Kate,

I'm no help with anti-heroes in romance novels, but the Game of Thrones books by George Martin have some excellent examples if you like fantasy. Of course that series is nowhere close to being finished, so that might be annoying to you. It is to me. ;-)

Good luck with your search!
Ellen

Lina Gardiner said...

I love that you're not one of the flock, Kate. It shows in the amazing stories and range of characters you develop. Unique, wonderful people I'd love to meet. And your books are always wonderful page turners that I can't put down. Keep it up.

liztalley said...

Whew! You're trying to make me think too early this am.

I can't think of any off the top of my head in regards to what I've read lately. But in TV, I really like Dexter (the serial killer) because he's so complex and at times so likeable. I feel so weird when I'm watching the show because I'm kinda scared and kinda sympathetic and rooting for him.

I think it's hard to create heroes with too many flaws because it's harder to accept for the reader. We want strong heroes who are worth loving and make us forget that such a man doesn't really exist in real life. As my friend Rita says, "They all fart under the sheets." LOL. So I think the reader usually identifies with the heroine and thus forgives easier the mistakes she makes because we can, of course, more easily forgive our flaws than those of others...or maybe that's just me.

Pamela Hearon said...

Jamie Frasier of Diana Gabaldon's OUTLANDER series is my favorite hero and anti-hero. His love for Claire is undeniable, but he's got a list of flaws as long as my arm. Still, he manages to break my heart with his tenderness--often right after he's beaten someone to a pulp ... or worse.

Kate said...

Oh, this is great! Thanks to all of you, my TBR list is growing.

Liz, love the "fart under the sheets" comment!

Ellen, I've heard so much about Game of Thrones, I have to read at least one. Although I hear the books are addictive!

Lina, thanks for the lovely comments. We'll be odd ducks together, okay?

Pamela, Yes, how could I forget the Outlander series?

Kristina Mathews said...

I have to disagree that men you find in romance novels are unrealistic. Maybe it's because I read mostly Superromance, but I think it's perfectly reasonable to believe in true love with a man who is not perfect, but by giving his heart becomes who he was meant to be.

The priest at a wedding I went to last week said it beautifully, that in marriage the couple give each other the strength to become the person God intended them to be.

That's exactly why we believe in love.

Snookie said...

I am a college-educated, upper management, former (and still sometimes) radical and I think romance heroes are believable in some lines and in some stories. If they weren't I wouldn't buy so many of them. Sure sometimes I use them as "escape reading" but most times I just enjoy a good story about believeable people. Granted there are some stories that just have you scratching your head thinking this could never last or this is to unbelieveable to be true, but I've found out in my many years of life that the truth is often unbelieveable!

Rogenna Brewer said...

Kate, for me it's Barrons ( I think that's his name anyway) in Karin Maria Mongins Fever series. Though I don't believe we're ever in his POV--hmm.

Kate said...

Kristina, it's wonderful to hear SuperRomances resonant with you. I like Supers, too. Love the comment the priest made.

Kate said...

Snookie,
How true that life is often stranger than fiction.

Kate said...

Thanks for the recommendation, Rogenna. I'm going to have to look that one up!

Lina Gardiner said...

Definitely two odd ducks! :)

Norah Wilson said...

I loved this blog, Kate. I personally love a hero who is (at least at the beginning) a little ambiguous. If there's no ambiguity and he's pure, shining hero material, there's no reason for the heroine not to go after him and rope him quick. Of course, I write suspense, mostly. Come to think of it, I remember when Anne Stuart gave us her "recipe" for a successful RS, I believe she always starts with a hero the heroine can't immediately trust. And I can't find any fault in Anne's books. Speaking of which, maybe you need to pick up some of her titles. :)

Barbara Phinney said...

I loved Mr. Rochester in Jane Eyre. He was rude and cruel and yet redeemed himself in the end. And I love heroes that aren't perfect. Kevin Costner's role in The Postman. What a whiner!
I also think your backlash is perfectly normal. I love and feel so pulled toward atypical settings because I get tired of the same places. Ranches, fantastic islands, New York, small towns. I'm reading The Templar Agenda. The heroine is a snobby socialite and the hero a member of the Swiss guard. It's even set in part right smack in the Vatican.
Give me more!

Kate said...

Norah,
Good suggestion. I always look forward to reading Anne Stuart!

Kate said...

Barbara.
The Templar Agenda sounds like a fascinating book!And I think you're right. It's refreshing to read something different from time to time.

linda s said...

There are a lot of anti-heroes in literature but they never make my reading shelf. No interest.

Barbara Phinney said...

Kate, glad you brought this up. We diversity in our diet and in our reading. There's nothing wrong with reading and wanting to find anti heroes. They make us think. They make us cringe when we do the same things.
And your honesty here is a refreshing cool breeze on a hot summer's day. Thank you, Kate!

reneeann said...

Okay, this comes from someone who doesn't write but reads Romance. I love the idea of a hero the heroine can't trust or doesn't even want anything to do with. At least at the beginning.

When I read Romance, I know they'll end up together in the end anyway. What I need to figure out is HOW!

After all, isnt it this 'chemical imbalance' that makes it more realistic? :)

Eli Yanti said...

I love sebastian st vincent from devil in winter by lisa kleypas :)

Jo's Daughter said...

Heathcliff from Wuthering Heights. I know he's not a nice man, but he's so passionately in love with Cathy that I still find a soft spot for him in my heart. Even though I know he does not really deserve it.

Karina Bliss said...

My favorite anti-hero is Sheridan Drake in Laura Kinsale's Seize the Fire. Most of her heroes have fatal flaws. Great post, Kate.

Karina

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