Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Volunteers Building Communities

Mary Sullivan

On Sunday, I visited a small bicycle repair shop on a busy thoroughfare in my very busy city to visit a young friend who was working for the afternoon. I'd heard a lot about this store and wanted to see how it operated.

My young friend was volunteering for the day, which she does for five or six hours one Sunday out of every month. Given that she is working on her Masters in Environmental Studies and has two paying jobs to support herself, I'm impressed that she still manages to find time to donate. Sundays are Women and Transgender days. Men are allowed at any other times that the store is open, but not on Sunday afternoons. Why? Because this bicycle shop doesn't repair bikes for you; rather they teach you how to repair your own bikes. The logic behind Women and Trans days is that women may be intimidated doing mechanical jobs in front of men, unfortunate but quite possibly true. The little shop was packed with women.

Women had bikes set up at stations, while my young friend walked from station to station directing what needed to be done to fix various problems. The cost to the women? Any parts used needed to be paid for, plus whatever small donation that could be made to keep the shop running. The prices for parts were extremely reasonable because they are all donated.

A couple of women sat at a worktable with wheels in clamps in front of them learning how to fix them.

I was impressed by the depth of knowledge my friend has. I had no idea bikes were so complex.

In the small kitchen behind the repair area, another couple of volunteers cooked lunch--chickpea curry, because all they had were chickpeas and rice. I had brought a snack for my friend. The next time I visit, I'll bring staples for their kitchen ;-)

The basement was full of broken bikes, donations from people who would no longer be using them. Some of the bikes that were too far gone for repair were cannibalized for parts. Once a month, volunteers meet at the shop to repair bikes that still have a lot of life in them. They repair these bikes then put them up for sale at reasonable prices. Usually, the volunteers end up pulling an all-nighter to get as many bikes repaired as possible. Someone cooks dinner for all of them on a shoestring budget.

I am SO impressed that so many of these young people give so freely of their time to help others. They are passionate about putting more bicycles on the road so there are fewer cars out there. None of the people who work there while the shop is open are paid for their time. I salute their passion and their willingness to give.

I saw a strong sense of community, of giving and sharing knowledge, in a place where women were comfortable learning about the mechanics of keeping their own bicycles repaired. I left feeling good that this tiny segment of the next generation is toiling to make our world a better place.

Volunteering has long been a wonderful way to take a little of our time, energy, and expertise and share it with others.

Do you know of any communities in which volunteers give of themselves so generously? Are you involved in volunteer work? What does it do for you? Does it leave you with a sense of accomplishment or satisfaction? I would love to hear about your experiences.

24 comments:

Jeannie Watt said...

Hi Mary--What a wonderful program! I live so far out in the sticks that I've become more of a donator than a volunteer--although a was a 4-H leader for many years. Thank goodness for the internet, which allows me to become involved even in the middle of serious deadlines.

msullivan said...

Yes, Jeannie, I was really impressed by it.

At this year's agricultural fair, a bunch of teenagers and pre-teens involved with 4-H had their steers on show. They were beautiful animals and the kids looked so proud. Another wonderful program!

Kristina Mathews said...

I'm at that stage of life that all my volunteer work is centered around schools and sports. I like to work behind the scenes as secretary for parent club and little league (although I gave that one up this year) and work on School Site Council and Budget Committee.

Years of volunteering in my sons' classrooms have led to a part time job as an aide. Working with Kindergarteners helps me appreciate my teenager and my teenager helps me appreciate the Kindergartners.

I must have missed the rule about not being able to fix things in the presence of men. One of my favoirite memories of my early marriage was the time I was listening the the baseball game on the radio while fixing the screen door and my husband was in the kitchen doing dishes. I laid the tile in our kitchen, but I did let him use the tile saw and mix the grout for me.

msullivan said...

Kristina, it's so great that your volunteer work at school led to a job.

Love that you were fixing the door while your husband was doing dishes. I like to hear of social conventions turned upside down ;-)

Kate said...

What an inspiring blog! Like Jeannie, I live in the country and volunteering doesn't work for me. But I have to agree with you about the younger generation. I'm so impressed with the 20 & 30 yr old age group. So many intelligent, socially conscious people. Gives me hope!

msullivan said...

"So many intelligent, socially conscious people. Gives me hope!"

Kate, I'm so with you on this! These were young people who weren't the least bit afraid of hard work, or of forging a slightly different way of doing things.

liztalley said...

This past Christmas Day, my whole family, including our children, went to a Community Christmas for the homeless and less fortunate. Our church provided lunch (along with a takeout), toys for the children, music, and several selections of warm clothes like scarves, hats and gloves along with hygiene products. It was beautiful and my kids finally saw how truly blessed they are. Very humbling, but very fulfilling to be in service of others - a wonderful mission of my church. It's now a new tradtion in the Talley family :)

Great to see other giving back, teaching others to help themselves.

msullivan said...

Liz, what a fabulous idea! It sounds like you've started a wonderful tradition--so great for the children.

Sometimes it's good to give them an accurate 'ruler' against which to measure their good fortune.

Kathy Altman said...

Wow, Mary, how impressive! I loved reading about how everyone came together--and continues to come together--to fill a need through the bicycle shop. I help out every now and then by babysitting for parents who can't afford sitters but I really don't do as much volunteering as I should--lack of time is such an easy excuse. But as my sister always says, we were put on this earth to help each other out--so thank you for the reminder, Mary! :-)

msullivan said...

Kathy, babysitting for parents who can't afford babysitters is a fabulous way to give them a much-needed break. What a great idea!

Snookie said...

I've been volunteering for a youth organization for over 30 yrs. I serve on the board and on committees. I also volunteered with Special Olympics for about 10 yrs and was on the board of many other community organizations. I've been active in my community since I was 19. I am not 56. I'm really glad to see that you have many young people involved.

msullivan said...

Snookie, all of the volunteering that you've done is fantastic!!!

Yes, I was so happy to see young people out forming a caring community.

linda s said...

One of the volunteer positions I like is the outreach program of our local library. Volunteers take library books and cookies to shut-ins and stay for a cup of tea.
We have a volunteering family. Youth today are amazing. When I fell a few years ago in a parking lot and broke my shoulder, my rescuers were all well-pierced young people with funny colored hair. So kind and gentle.

msullivan said...

Linda, what a great idea the library outreach is--bringing not only books but also company to shut-ins.

GREAT story about your rescuers. Such a strong lesson in not judging people by the way they look.

Joan Kilby said...

Mary, what an inspiring story of a community working together. I love that they're recycling instead of throwing away and buying new. I used to volunteer at the school when my kids were little. I'd like to do more but like Jeannie, these days I'm more of a donator. I hope to get more involved again when I retire. But that's a long way off!

msullivan said...

Joan, it was a revelation to see all of the care they took to save and recycle as much as they could from the donated bikes. I was inspired to do more in my own life.

I used to volunteer for more when I was younger than I do now. But I do donate. I can't help myself--I'm going to have to help my young friends stock their kitchen for future meals ;-)

Laura Russell said...

Five of us, my sons, a friend of theirs, his mom, and I cooked and served dinner for about 90 men at a homeless shelter. Our cooking efforts were so appreciated. One fellow had tears in his eyes as he helped himself to thirds and told us the refritos were the best he'd had since living with his mom.

The shelter is well-run but a little casual about food. The regulars arrived with their own bottles of hot sauce which they tucked away after a taste.

We served as if it were a catered dinner- everything hot, the garnish and salsas just so. Many of the men expressed their appreciation to the kids, making them feel all grown up. I felt so satisfied when we finished.

marybelle said...

My Mother is a member of the Red Cross. I help out when & where I can.

msullivan said...

Laura, I love what you did for the homeless. One thing I can't imagine is not having a place to live, not even just a small room somewhere. You gave them an amazing gift, and involving your children was the best part of all. They will remember it always.

msullivan said...

Marybelle, fabulous that you help out at the Red Cross. They do such good work!

Mary Brady said...

Mary, great blog! I love the human race and hearing volunteer stories makes me even more of a believer in humankind.

I volunteer at hospice. I thought I was there because I could do the job. A patient told me why I do it. She said, “Because it’s your turn.” That fit even better.

I noticed a remarkable thing about hospice staff and volunteers: I have never heard any of them blame any patient for anything. It seems that during the process of dying, the people who care for you just want to make you as comfortable as possible and nothing that came before matters. This gives the hospice unit a profoundly peaceful feeling.

msullivan said...

"Because it's your turn." Mary, I really like that.

I love your description of hospice care. How truly lovely that you offer a peaceful atmosphere where nothing that came before matters.

Rogenna Brewer said...

Mary, what a unique shop. I need to get out there and do more myself.

Debra Salonen said...

Sorry I missed this post on the day you left it, Mary. I was actually volunteering at the inaugural fundraiser of 2012 of the new charter school we are setting up in our small community. I can't tell you how rewarding it was that night to talk to community members who were there solely to support education. I have three granddaughters who will benefit from this new school, but many people came out simply because this was the right thing to do. It was joyous!