Monday, December 19, 2011

Christmas, the Internet, and the Husband...





It’s that time of the year again and I’m busy finishing last minute details. The hubby’s always the hard one on my list. But this year he’s easy because he broke his watch and has been telling the time by his phone. Last year I had no idea what to get him. And then at breakfast one morning he said, “A piece of Orange Slice Cake would sure go good with coffee.”

This was a cake his grandmother made every year. She was a fabulous cook and affectionately called Big Mama. She was all of four foot eleven inches tall and maybe weighed 100 pounds. Think Granny of The Beverly Hillbillies, except Big Mama had short gray hair. My husband’s office was two blocks from her house and he ate dinner with her every weekday until she passed away at age 98.

She got up at four every morning, would make coffee and start cooking. She’d make a pie, a cake or cookies or homemade bread. My husband always had something sweet after his lunch. He should weigh at least 300 pounds, but thankfully he doesn’t. We would get an Orange Slice Cake every year for Christmas and we loved it. It’s like a fruit cake but, oh, so much better.

Whenever the hubby mentions the cake, I mostly ignore him because I didn’t want to attempt to make that cake. It would never be as good as his grandmother’s and I’ll admit I’m not the greatest cook. But last year, in a weak moment, I decided I was going to surprise him and make it. I had a mission so I called his aunt to ask for the recipe and she said Big Mama never had recipes. Coming from a family of twelve she learned to cook as a small girl watching her sisters and mother. The aunt had written down some recipes over the years, but not that cake. I’d made up my mind to make the cake so I called his other aunt. She told me the same thing. My husband’s mother didn’t have it because she’d mentioned she’d wished she’d had her mother write it down. I was stumped, but not for long. Information is at our fingertips these days. I went to the Internet and typed it in and several recipes came up. I picked out one that looked similar. I was in business.

My friend and I went to buy the ingredients. She decided to help because it sounded like something her family would like. So we put it together. Cutting up the orange slices was the hardest part. The sticky candy kept sticking to the knife. Finally we mixed all the ingredients together and poured it into a greased Bundt pan. The instructions said to bake it in a 275 degree oven for two and a half hours. My friend went to run errands and I went back to writing.

I had the cake cooling when she got back. We placed a cake plate over it and flipped it. Nothing happened. We jiggled, tapped, shook the thing and then ran a knife around the edges, but it stayed glued to the pan. I wanted to cry. I didn’t want my husband to have to eat it with a spoon. I did some quick thinking. Ah, ha, the Internet. I typed in how to remove a stuck cake from the pan and answers immediately popped up. Oh, I loved that. I got all sorts of suggestions. Most I’d already tried. One person said I should have floured the pan. Well, I’d already figured that out, but I thought Pam would do the trick. Another suggestion said to place the pan in ice water or in the freezer for 15 minutes. (Most people probably know this) So we placed it in ice water. Fifteen minutes later we turned it upside down on to the cake plate and waited. Plop. It came out perfectly. God bless the Internet.

That night I surprised my husband with the cake. He couldn’t believe I’d made it. He took a bite and I held my breath.

“How is it?”

Between bites he said, “Good, but not quite like Big Mama’s.”

He’s is no longer living and I ate the whole Orange Slice Cake myself. No, no, no. I gave some to my friend and my neighbor. No, no. He’s still living. Barely.

After he saw that I’m-gonna-kill-you-look in my eyes, he quickly added, “It’s better.” Yeah, right. But it was good and I’m glad I made it. This year I’m going to make it in little loaf pans and give as gifts. I’m getting brave.

What tasty treats are you making for the holidays? Or share a crazy cooking experience.

I’m giving away a copy of The Texan’s Christmas (print or ebook) to one lucky winner chosen at random.

Wishing you joy and love this holiday season. And many good SuperRomance novels to read.

Merry Christmas,


Linda

50 comments:

Sonya Natalia said...

It’s summer here for Christmas in Australia, so we’re steering away from all the heavy stuff.

However we also celebrate Ukrainian Christmas from the 6th-7th of January, where of course we’ll have Ukraine’s most famous creation: Borsch!

There will also be the traditional baked goods, and kutia, which is made of wheat and honey.

My contribution to the cooking will be a joke – I cut out the dough rings for the varenyky (dumplings), and leave the cooks to the actual work while I drink the champagne!

Kristin Noel Fischer said...

Funny story, Linda. That orange cake sounds delicious, and your husband should worship the ground you walk on for going through all the trouble to make it.

I have a similar story regarding my husband's mother's famous coke cake. It took me years to perfect that cake. She gave me the recipe, but it was missing a key ingredient. Hmmm.

Well, now it's my famous coke cake. All of my kids request it for their birthdays, and I make it four times in June...once for end of the school year, dh birthday, father's day, and the 4th time to round out the month.

Here's to good food!

Liz Talley said...

What a great story. Loved that you made him his Big Mama's cake :)

My mom and I make prailines every Christmas. We usually use my grandmother's pan and spoon to make it. Last night we undertook this family tradition...but my mom forgot the pan and spoon. Silly though it may be, those are the ones we always use while we talk about all the times we made it in grandmom's kitchen. It's a process with no candy thermometers and knowing when it's ready by how it looks. We made two batches last night, along with a batch of fudge. It's not Christmas without prailines in my family :)eve if it's made in the wrong pan.

jcp said...

my mom's sugar cookies

Linda Warren said...

Sonya,
Sometimes it feels like summer in Texas at the holidays, but this year a cold front is moving in so it will be cold. It will feel like Christmas.

Ukrainian baked goods sound yummy, but I'm like you I'd rather drink the champagne and leave the cooking to the real cooks.

What goes with the dumplings? Here we have Chicken and Dumplings.

Linda Warren said...

Kristin,
I told my hubby that and he praised the cake enough to get him out of the doghouse.

That's hiliarious about the missing ingredient. Now was it on purpose? LOL

Sounds as if you have it perfected if everyone requests it. There's always one dessert that everyone loves. My step-m-i-l made a banana pudding that was to die for. We all have the recipe, but no one has ever attempted to make it, even after her death. We're chicken.LOL

Linda Warren said...

Liz,
I love pralines and I love your tradition. It's those little things like a pot and a spoon that make it special. Even though you didn't have the pot and spoon it was special because you made them with your mom.

I miss that. My mom used to make pralines and there's no way I'd attempt that either. It really is about knowing just by looking when they're ready. I never saw what she saw.

I'm getting hungry.

Linda Warren said...

Jcp.
Sugar cookies. A Christmas favorite. I have a recipe that you roll into a roll and you let it sit overnight in the refrigerator. The next day you slice and bake.

Kathleen O said...

I make my Pumpkin Loaf and give this out to friend I visit or who visit me.. I am starting a fresh batch tomorrow... I am going to my "aunt" by friendship tomorrow and I wantn to take them soemthing nice. Her and her busband are staying home for Christmas this year as he is not well and they can't travel.. So I want them to have somethng nice to snack on...

I loved that yoru hubby had such a wonderful relationship with his Granny.. I had the same kind with my Nana and I miss her so. She will be gone 18yrs this January and I still miss her so much...

JV said...

My mother-in-law (or perhaps I should say my step-mother-in-law since she married my husband's father long after DH was grown and out of the house) was the same way. She never wrote down recipes and never even measured ingredients, much to my chagrin. Her daughter tried to watch her make stuff and get measurements and recipes down sometimes, but she wasn't ever very successful at it.

Everyone loved Mabel's "light rolls", a light dinner roll with specks of whole wheat through it that was minimally sweet. My husband really wishes that I'd managed to absorb the knowledge of how to make those, but, alas, I never did. I am definitely a recipe cook, rather than an intuitive one.

Your story about your husband's orange slice cake made me smile. It brought to mind my struggle to make macaroni and cheese like my husband's mother made it. (She was dead long before I met him, I don't eat it,anyway. So I had trouble determining what recipes would suit his taste.) Anyway, I tried recipe after recipe, painstakingly making them with love,and he'd always shake his head and say, "Nope. That's not good. I don't like..." whatever attribute displeased him. Yet, he'd eat boxed macaroni and cheese and tell me that it was acceptable because it wasn't "real" mac 'n' cheese. He wanted the real thing.

I was at the end of my rope after trying just about every recipe I could find and getting shot down. I'd pretty much decided he'd have to live the rest of his life with boxed mac 'n' cheese until he came home one day with a cookbook that had what it claimed was Ronald Reagan's favorite macaroni and cheese recipe. He said that sounded like what he'd like.

I warned him that if I made it and he didn't like it, I was done, and we might just end up in divorce court. (I was only kidding about divorce court ... sort of.) Anyway, I made it, and he declared it as good as his mother's mac 'n' cheese. So I guess Ronald Reagan saved our marriage. Ha!

JV said...

Kristin,

That sounds so much like one of my favorite TV episodes of The Dick Van Dyke Show. It's from Season 3, Episode 5: All About Eavesdropping, and it's about a recipe with a missing ingredient. It's hysterical! My favorite part is where they are playing charades. If you can find the episode out on the internet, you should watch it!

Linda Warren said...

Kathleen,
Anything with pumpkin in it I love. It's so nice of you to make a pumpkin loaf for your friend who's not feeling well. That's what Christmas is about - giving from the heart.

My husband loved his grandmother and he was her favorite. The other grandkids knew this and sometimes would ask her who was her favorite grandchild. She'd reply that she loved them all equally, but there was something special about the first grandchild. He was her first grandchild.

Linda Warren said...

JV,
Big Mama never measured anything either. It just amazed me how everything she made turned out so good.

Those rolls sound delicious. I wish, too, I had gotten more of his grandmother's recipes or watched how she made things.

Ronald Reagan saved your marriage. I laughed at that. Your hubby is serious about his mac and cheese and it's great he found a recipe that works for him. Gotta keep the hubby happy.LOL But I was the same way about that Orange Slice Cake. I was beside myself when it wouldn't come out of the pan.

Linda Warren said...

JV,
I can't believe I remember that episode. Hilarious. There's also an episode on Everybody Loves Raymond where Marie adds an ingredient (terragon I believe) so her d-i-l's meatballs would taste yucky and not as good as hers.

Tammy Yenalavitch said...

Merry Christmas Linda,

I already made fudge and Sugar cookies. I already have your first two Harden book, so I would love to win The Texan's Christmas.

Kristina Mathews said...

I make chocolate truffles for Christmas every year. I'm thinking of adding some caramels and chocolate dipped pretzels this year.

My first Thanksgiving as a new bride, I made pumpkin pie for the first time. Since we lived at the pumpkin patch, I of course, made it from fresh pumpkin. I sliced and roasted the sugar pumpkins, pureed the squash in my brand new blender and proudly presented my pies to my mother-in-law and More Nani (my husband's grandmother). They both let me know that Libby's was better. My husband had the apple, so he was off the hook.

I still make pumpkin pie for my Mother-in-law. (More Nani passed away at age 99). I use Libby's but make the crust from scratch.

Cathryn Parry said...

Linda, I love that story! Big Mama sounds wonderful.

We had a similar story early in our marriage, but the ending turned out differently.

One Thanksgiving, my husband had to travel to China on business and was sad over missing the holiday. So as a young wife, I resolved to make him a Thanksgiving dinner with all the trimmings. I wasn't used to cooking, so I consulted with the women in my family.

I should have consulted with the women in his family, because he didn't like that I put onions in the stuffing. It was his first comment, and he realized his mistake pretty quickly after looking at the murderous expression on my face. Then I sweetly told him that that was the last dinner I was cooking for him for awhile.

Turns out, he was delighted with that pronouncement. Soon after, he took over the cooking. I took over the clean-up. Plus, I mix a mean cocktail, and do all the baking. It's worked for us for almost 20 years. :)

Jeannie Watt said...

Linda--Very funny story. I love the part where dh was wise enough to say the cake was better than his grandmother's.

Every year my mom mails us a box of Aunt France's Swedish cookies. They're rich and buttery and have candied fruit in them. I'm not a candied fruit fan, unless it has spent months soaking in brandy, but I love these cookies. They should be arriving any day now. God bless baking mothers!

Merry Christmas to you, Linda!

PatriciaW said...

Thankfully I love to bake because Hubby and the boys love to eat baked goods.

My cooking story has to do with collard greens. I'm from a West Indian/Panamanian family, not American South. So I had never seen a collard green, much less cooked one when for our first Thanksgiving as a newly married couple, Hubby wanted greens. I had to call his mother, from the supermarket, cell phone to ear, and have her describe to me what "a collard" looked like. Then, naturally, I deposited said greens at her house, so that she could cook them for me.

I have since learned to cook a mean pot of greens, such that MIL compliments me.

Linda Warren said...

Tammy,
Thank you! You'll love The Texan's Christmas. There's a wild train ride across Texas that takes up a lot of the book and I'm getting some fun mail about it.

It's not Christmas without fudge or sugar cookies. One year my s-i-l made fudge in the microwave and it was hard as a rock. She said it was soft when she cut it, but it was very hard at the Christmas party. She's never lived that down.LOL

Linda Warren said...

Kristina,
Chocolate truffles with caramel. Yummy. And chocolate-covered pretzels is not bad either. This blog is making me hungry. I had to go get a candy kiss just to curb my appetite.

After all your hard work, they loved Libby's better. Don't you just love honest relatives? You get a gold star for making the crust. That's not easy.

Linda Warren said...

Cathryn,
What a story. And it turned out really great. I like that kind of partnership. I should have tried that. My hubby will fix breakfast and he's good at heating leftovers, but that's it. His grandmother spoiled him. LOL

Welcome to SuperRomance!

Linda Warren said...

Jeannie,
He had that deer-caught-in-the-headlights look and he did some fast thinking. I wanted to laugh every time he ate a slice of the cake. He would say how good it was over and over.

I've never had Swedish cookies, but they sound delicious. Yep, I'll eat anything soaked in brandy, except my mom's fruitake. But now that I'm older I might enjoy that brandy-flavored fruitcake.LOL

Merry Christmas to you, too.

Linda Warren said...

Patricia,
That was a smart move to take the greens to your m-i-l to cook. The hubby couldn't complain. We have mustard greens and collards here. My mother cooked those and I've made them occasionally. They're supposed to be very healthy.

We have something here called poke sallet. I wasn't familair with it until I married the hubby. He would take his grandmother to search for it. It grew on the side of the road. It looked like weeds to me, but it's a type of wild green. Big Mama grew up on it and she loved it. I'm not that crazy about it, but your hubby might have heard of it.

Karina Bliss said...

"He’s is no longer living and I ate the whole Orange Slice Cake myself. No, no, no. I gave some to my friend and my neighbor. No, no. He’s still living. Barely."

Linda, thanks for this morning's first smile. A lovely story about traditions and husbands.
Karina

Linda Warren said...

Karina,
You're welcome. After all that work and worrying he'd have to eat it with a spoon, I wanted to hurt him for a nano second.LOL Luckily, he's a fast thinker.

Oh, the things we do to please our husbands.

Mary Brady said...

Linda, great story. The cake looks yummy! The book looks great, too, but cake will get my attention before almost anything.

Snookie said...

Your orange sliced cake story cracked me up :) He's no longer living got me :) I'm going to have to look up the recipe for that cake, it sounds yummy. I've made orange cake for my son and he loves it. It's basically just a yellow or white box cake, but I use orange juice (fresh squeezed or concentrate) for the liquid, then after it's baked I pull it out of the oven poke the top with a fork and drizzle squeezed orange over it. I also add fresh squeezed orange and grated rind to butter cream frosting. YUMMY :) Now I noticed that duncan hines (or Betty Crocker) has an orange cake box mix.

Linda Warren said...

Mary,
Thank you. Around this time of the year I become a sugar addict. So many good things to eat and so little time. Around Jan 2 I'll be asking myself what was I thinking. Usually I'm not thinking. I'm just enjoying the moment. If someone says, "Try this", I'll try it.LOL It's Christmas.

Linda Warren said...

Snookie,
He repents very well.LOL

My cousin makes an orange cake and it's delicious and moist. It sounds a lot like yours. The Orange Slice Cake has dates, nuts, candied fruit and the candy orange slices, and a lot of other things I can't recall. I'll post the recipe later tonight.

Kaelee said...

When I got married I loved to bake but my husband didn't like sweets. He finally told me he liked oatmeal cookies without raisins in them. I made him oatmeal cookies. I made him oatmeal cookies from a recipe his mother sent me. I lost track of the number of different recipes I made. We were back home in Alberta visiting his parents and his mom made him oatmeal cookies. Not even his mother could make the right oatmeal cookie. His mom was clearly puzzled. Then she said that sometimes when she made oatmeal cookies she used leftover porridge to make them. Bingo!

My mom made two different wonderful fruitcakes. They always turned out delicious but the comment every year was they aren't as good as last years. Mom would say she wasn't going to make anymore as she just kept getting worse. Memory always makes things better.

chey said...

I made shortbread and fruitcake.

Anonymous said...

Just what I needed - a really good laugh. At your hubby's expense I might add.

And I didn't know you could soak the pan in ice water. Course this comes from the person who used too much oil in the brownies and they ended up sliding out of the pan.
Yeah, I don't bake much.

Marcie

Virginia said...

Well I made cookies today and a sugar free cherry cheese cake for hubby since he can't have the sugar in the cookies. I plan on making some candy later in the week but I am not going to make much because hubby can't have it.

Cute story on your orange cake I usually just through my cakes in a sheet pan and we cut it from the pan or I make cup cakes. I have had cakes stick like that also.

Kathy Altman said...

A very sweet story, Linda, in more ways than one! :-) I'm sure your hubby appreciated all the effort you went to. I am lucky in that my DH was never that enamored with his mother's cooking, so there's not too much I can do wrong. :-) Happy Holidays!

Linda Warren said...

Kaelee,
That's funny. Porridge in oatmeal cookies - the secret ingredient. I'll have to remember that because I love oatmeal cookies with the raisins. We go to a lot of trouble to please our guys.

Food always taste better from memory. I'm not a fan of fruitcake, but if I soak that thing in brandy for a week, I might enjoy it. My mom did that, but the kids never ate it. I'm now willing to give it a try.

Linda Warren said...

Chey,
Is shortbead like sugar cookies?

Oh, someone who makes fruitcake. Do you soak yours in brandy? We'll all come visit.

Linda Warren said...

Marcie,
I'm laughing. I can see those brownies sliding right out of the pan. We're ight there together in the cooking department. Merry Christmas.

Linda Warren said...

Virginia,
There are so many substitute sweetners now that it's wonderful you can bake something for the hubby. He doesn't have to be left out.

I think I'm going to become a fan of throwing the cake into a long pan and cutting it into squares.LOL Saves a lot of trouble.

Linda Warren said...

Kathy,
Yes, he did appreciate it. But he now expects me to make it every year.

My husband's mother couldn't cook. Her children preferred it if she didn't. She made tuna salad one time with mustard. Now that was hard to swallow. Their grandmother was the amazing cook. I think the cooking gene skips every other generation.

Linda Warren said...

Here's the recipe for the brave ones.
ORANGE SLICE CAKE

2 sticks (8 ounces) margarine
4 eggs
16 ounces orange slice candy
4 cups all-purpose flour
1 small can (3 1/2 ounces) coconut
1 teaspoon baking soda
2 cups sugar
1 1/2 cups buttermilk
pinch of salt
1 cup chopped pecans or walnuts
16 ounces chopped dates
Small container of candied cherries

Glaze:
1 cup orange juice
1 cup sugar

Preparation:
Preheat oven to 250°. Melt margarine and let cool. Cream sugar and cooled margarine. Add 1 egg at a time and beat well. Add buttermilk, soda, flour and salt to the mixture and beat. Add chopped dates, coconut, nuts, cherries and candy. Bake in greased and floured Bundt pan for 2and 1/2 hours.

Glaze: Mix 1 cup orange juice and 1cup sugar and pour over cake while cake is hot. (I didn’t make the glaze because my husband’s grandmother never did)

Kristin Noel Fischer said...

Oh, you posted the recipe. Thank you, Linda. I was going to look for it.

I can totally see Marie sabotaging Debra's cooking. In fairness to my MIL, I don't thing she intentionally left out the ingredient.

JV, I'll have to look for that Dick Van Dyke show. It sounds funny.

Rogenna Brewer said...

Sounds yummy, Linda. And we're on the same page this holiday week. My blog Thursday also has to do with baking. And a little something I learned from google that saved my fudge :)

Laney4 said...

I make my own macaroni and cheese without measured ingredients. I boil between 1 and 2 cups of elbow macaroni until "done enough". I pour a bit of water into the end of a ketchup or barbecue sauce or chili sauce container, swish it around, and pour it in a small Pyrex bowl. I add more ketchup and a little water, and mix (or just do this if not at the end of a bottle - approximately 1 cup in total). I just go by the consistency – it’s not really thick but not watery, although closer to thick than watery. The other ingredient is shredded (mild or medium cheddar) cheese. You basically swish a bit of the sauce around the bottom of a sprayed 8x8 or 9x9 (or whatever) baking container (I use Corningware) so that the macaroni won't stick to the bottom. Add half the macaroni and less than half the cheese, a bit of the ketchup mixture, then the remaining macaroni, the remaining cheese, and the remaining ketchup mixture. Put in any temperature of oven until the cheese melts. I have used 325 to 425 degrees, depending on whatever other food is in the oven at the same time. Takes about 20 minutes (or 10 or 30 - whatever crispiness you like). You can use the bottom shelf to speed things up or the middle shelf. You know you'd better get it out soon if the Pyrex sides start turning black - but it still tastes great! Feeds 4-6 or more servings (as we're pigs).

marybelle said...

I'm making Rum Balls & Chocolate Crackles at the moment. Treats I can make ahead of time & freeze up.

Linda Warren said...

Kristin,
You're welcome. Snookie asked for the recipe so I posted it.

Eveybody Loves Raymond is hilarious. I hope no one has a m-i-l like Marie who does everything with LOVE, even when she's criticizing.

Your m-i-l sounds like my mother. I'd write down one of her recipes and when I would make it, it never tasted like hers. Of course, she added something that she forgot to tell me.

Merry Christmas!

Linda Warren said...

Ro,
We think alike. Can't wait to read about your fudge. You can find anything on the Internet.

Merry Christmas!!

Linda Warren said...

Laney,
I've never had Mac & Cheese made that way. I wrote down the recipe and I'm going to try it. It sounds tasty and something we would like.

Merry Chhristmas!

Linda Warren said...

Marybelle,
That sounds delicious. I had rum balls at a party one time, but I've never made them. If you have time, please post the recipe.

Merry Christmas!

Linda Warren said...

I hope everyone has lots of good food to eat this holiday season, family and friends to share it with, and love and peace in your heart.

Merry Christmas!!! (throwing confetti in the air and munching on a candy kiss)

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